Being a provider for your family always is at the top of the list of qualities of a good man. But paying the bills is not the definition of that. A man not only thinks about the needs of today, but the growing and changing needs of the families future. Providing for your family includes security, guidance, and wisdom.
There are all kinds of thoughts on what a family should look like. Many try to choose the husband or the wife to be the head of household. In a strong stable partnership, both people have power and make decisions based on what is best for the family. There are times when mom takes control and times when daddy knows best. I don't get defensive when it come down to who is head of household. My husband is. But, I have a good man that only does what is in the best interest for the entire family. And my influence and wishes are always taken under consideration.
I cannot imagine defining a good man with out evaluating him as a parent. I am sure there are plenty good men who do not have children, but in my experiences, the real test of a good man is who he is as a dad. Where do his children take priority in his life? Has he or will he sacrifice for his kids. Does he identify his self as a father when he describes himself? Does he do actions today with purpose to influence his children's lives years down the line?
The way a man handles conflict of any kind shows his worth as well. Does he think before he speaks in anger? Does he choose to fight or flee in conflict? Can he say I am sorry if he is at fault?
No man, no human is perfect. But we all can aspire to have integrity and compassion, self awareness and the willingness to learn and grow. Perfection shouldn't be the goal.
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